Pesach Plagues - A Response to Sow More Seeds

I am so taken with the blog post of "Sow More Seeds" that I reblogged it recently.  I wanted to comment - to respond - to elaborate - and so have taken some time to understand my thoughts, and to post here from a place of knowing - a place of being those thoughts.

I am sure I have many more than ten personal plagues - but I want to try to keep this list to the top ten.  These then are the Plagues that are of my own creation that I see as the Pharaoh of my own life and yet still have not been persuaded to change...

The Plague of

Binding my children on the alter of my vision and dreams for their lives,
Depression,
Wanting more,
Having too much,
Not asking for help,
Talking too much,
Allowing myself to be unhappy,
Hating myself,
Not believing in myself, and
Allowing myself to be stalled by my own inertia.


And then there are those global Plagues; those Plagues that constrict the world; those Plagues that keep us as a people, as a society, as a global community from enjoying peace, eliminating poverty, respecting each other, and from making primary those things such as connections, love, and blessings for our fellow beings.

So the Plagues that I see that feel Global to me...

The Plague of

Religion as a big stick rather than a big tent,
Terrorism,
That abuse against women occurs at all - and in some cases is even sanctioned,
That abuse against women is not considered terrorism,
Discrimination for any reason,
That gender identity and partner preference is illegal, even punishable, anyplace,
Politicians play politics, rather than actually support the weakest and the voiceless,
Praise and extraordinary salaries for athletes and CEOs, and teachers, daycare workers, and pre school faculty might be on poverty wages,
War and violence as a choice or a solution to anything,
That anyone goes hungry or without medical care anywhere in the world.

Now to address some of the rest of that blog post.  What has me thinking is the paragraph about Pharaoh, and how he was part of a climate and economy built on slavery, and that changing that was bigger than just making a decision, it would have a global impact on his empire. I quote from the blog post "A Place to Sow More Seeds...:

"You have, in Egypt, an economy and social order built on slavery. Pharaoh, the guy in charge, did not create this system, though he certainly benefits from its privileges. Still, it is not his fault that he inherited such a system, and even less so that certain overseers are needlessly cruel to slaves, right? So when some dude, even if it's an adopted son, comes in and says, "Hey, you should free these people, and oh, if you don't, our God is going to make bad things happen to you," he's not really in a position to agree. Granted, he's the only person in a position to make that decision carte blanche, but it would be political suicide. The situation is so much bigger than him. He, and his entire society, would have to change their essential nature. That is not an easy decision or change to make. No wonder it took ten plagues. Egyptian society was better equipped to deal with frogs and flies than total economic upheaval. It took the slaying of the first-born, a loss that caused direct injury to the patriarchal economy and must have torn many hearts to pieces in the process, for the Pharaoh to make the otherwise politically catastrophic decision to free the Hebrew slaves."

In the world of conflict resolution, mediation and mindfulness practice I have been fortunate to work on programs and trainings with Israeli and Palestinian negotiators, the UN, courts, families, synagogues, and Fortune 500 companies.  In those worlds the idea of building 'Golden Bridges' and helping others 'Save Face' is a key to building relationships and getting to peace, "Getting to YES" as my mentor and colleague, the late Harvard Professor Roger Fisher wrote.

When I see President Obama working towards relations in Iran and in Cuba, I see a man in leadership and his advisers that understand that building bridges is more effective than violence.  Unfortunately, as a global community we think that violence and escalated violence is the only solution to violence.  And you want proof of escalation - look at this story from the Korean DMZ back in 1976 - over a Poplar tree! http://www.pbs.org/frontlineworld/stories/northkorea/1976.html

We don't want to be the last one that was attacked...what would that say about us at home? We turn quickly towards an eye for an eye. What does that do to our elect-ability or re-elect-ability? No, none of this is easy, and none of it gets our politicians first prize if that prize is getting elected or reelected.  Perhaps we need a different measurement of success?  Peace all!